Saturday, October 16, 2010

HOW TO COPE WITH THE PROBLEM OF MASTURBATION




 Masturbation refers to the sexual stimulation of a person’s genitals, usually to the point of orgasm.  The stimulation can be performed manually, by other types of bodily contact , by the use of objects or tools or by some combination of these methods. Masturbation is classified into self masturbation and mutual masturbation. When an individual masturbate alone it is referred to as self masturbation. But when masturbation is done with a partner or several partners it is referred to as mutual masturbation.

 It is a well-known fact that masturbation is very common among young people mostly the male folk. The secret nature of the act has made many people ashamed to seek medical help. Most people especially young men and women have masturbated at different point in time.  Often people who engage in masturbation find it difficult to stop because they become addicted to it.  There is also the feeling of guilt or psychological effect among the person that does the act. They even find it difficult to share their problem with their friends or relations.  Married couples have also been found to engage in masturbation and this sometimes affects their relationship. Older people who engage in masturbation tend to overcome this habits easily because they have careers that take away their time unlike most youth that are less busy.

An individual who engage in masturbation tend to suffer from the following problem:

  1. There is general weakness of the body

  1. There is injury on the sexual organs because of frequent squeezing and manipulation

  1. Male suffer from low sperm count because a lot of sperm is wasted in the acts


  1. There is also damage to the heart and the nervous system because of the frequent masturbation


The following suggestions are the ways to avoid the habits of frequent masturbation. 

They are as follows:

  1. Get married; with a partner around you will have ready access to a normal sex life.

  1. Read decent books that will develop your minds.  Consult Religious and inspirational books

3    Avoid watching pornographic films, magazine and books.  These obscene materials will      destroy your moral values and encourage negative sexual habits.

4. Avoid being idle, get busy with leisure activity. Go for swimming, gardening etc

5. Make friends rather than shy away from people around you.  Have a chat with your neighbors,  friends, associates etc


In conclusion, if the above guideline is strictly adhered to, it will enable you to avoid the habit of masturbation. You should use your time on productive venture because that is the only way to stay healthy.

Friday, October 15, 2010

A GUIDE TO CLASS OF PROSTITUTES IN THE SOCIETY

INTRODUCTION
Patronizing prostitutes is still a crime in most part of the world.  But there are some countries such as Holland where prostitution is legalized.  Visiting prostitutes is one of the quickest ways to catch STDs including HIV – AIDs.  You also run the risk of being beaten up by pimps or have your pocket picked when you patronize prostitutes.
In spite of the above odds, we still cannot do without prostitutes.  All social scientists have admitted that rape would be on the increase if there are no prostitutes to take care of the sexual urge of certain individuals in the society. 
Every man needs a woman and there are times when it becomes impossible to abstain from having sex.  When a man has no woman, for one reason or the other, he may need to get a call girl to satisfy his sexual needs.  Even when you have a woman, she may be far away or she may refuse to have sex with you for one reason or the other.  It could also be that you have a high libido that one lady is simply not enough.
The reasons for a man to hire a girl for sex are many and we can go on and on talking about them.  The bottom line is that prostitutes are useful no matter how you look at it.  It is necessary to know one or two things about them because one way or the other, you are surely going to need their services.
THE BROTHEL PROSTITUTE
These types of prostitutes are all over the big cities of the world including small towns.   You find them in dingy brothels especially in the cities and often, looking bitchy, cheap and dirty!  They are the commonest and easiest call girls you can lay your hands on.  They are cheap and always available.  Sex with them is quick, impersonal and risky.  The risk include arrest by Police, STDs, insults, abuses and possibly an assault from one or more of the prostitutes in the brothel.
Never ask for foreplay, fondling of breasts, blow jobs, doggie or anything extra.  These girls are not ready for all that “nonsense”  They want you to go straight to business, “ release” quick and go so that they can hustle for another customer.
The more money you can pay, the more these girls will treat you nice, but do not expect any girlfriend treatment from them.  They are there for business not pleasure that you are looking for.  The faster you fuck them and go, the better.
THE STREET HAWKERS
You find these prostitutes only in the cities.  They operate in secluded areas designated as “red light districts” and it is only in the night that you get to see them.
These category of prostitutes come neater, more enlightened and on the average younger than the brothel girls.  But they cost far more than their brothel counterparts.  You can have them for the whole night in your apartment and they try to make sex worthwhile for you.  A lot of them are well educated and willing to satisfy you.  You can actually get what you want from them including blow jobs, if you pay them well.
Your chances of getting STDs from them is probably higher then with brothel prostitutes.  Taking them to your apartment could be risky as you are exposing yourself to theft and armed robbery.  Some of them work hand in hand with criminal gangs and they will provide the necessary information about you to such gangs who will later break in or come to rob you by violence at night.

BIG HOTELS PROSTITUTES
These are prostitutes who hang around hotels and resort centres stalking on male visitors who are alone.  They usually work hand in hand with the Hotel Manager.  They are young, beautiful and often, well educated.
If you pay them well, you can get good and satisfying sex from them.  They are enlightened educated and know how to satisfy a man.  Your property is quite safe with them and they are not likely to pick your pocket.  Since they work hand in hand with the hotel management, they in most cases behave well and treat you real good.  But their services cost much.

CORPORATE PROSTITUTES
These are not so easy to identify and they are not likely to approach you directly as other prostitutes do.  However, they abound in the corporate world, the way their counterparts abound in the streets.
Their dress code is usually a miniskirt, a tight trouser and a blouse with a deep slit that show a reasonable portion of their cleavage.  Very likely, they wear a jacket on the blouse to give a corporate image.  They move from office to office hawking one product or the other.  The product may be a  tangible one like a new appliance, clothing accessories or an intangible product like an insurance policy or an investment idea.
It takes a lot of experience to identify these girls.  You really think they are there for business, but what they are hawking is just a cover up.  If you are observant, you will realize that the profit from what they are marketing would not be enough to make them dress so cutely in any case, from trying to sell a particular product to you, they will eventually sell their body to you.
In bed, they are good and could give you real satisfaction.  But some try to play the “good girl” to you and so behave shyly in bed.  It is only acting. They want you to think you have picked an innocent girl.
NITE CLUBS GIRLS
This is a blend of the brothel prostitutes and the street hawker.  These girls go to night clubs to drink and chat with men.  You can take them home or fuck them right there in the club.
Girls who are into night clubs prostitution often dress well – far better than the brothel or street hawker.  But you stand equal chances of getting STDs from them as their street hawking or brothel counterparts.

Monday, October 11, 2010

SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES, SEX TRADE AND SOLUTIONS


Sexually transmitted diseases is now on the increase globally. Many men and women are being infected daily with STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). A disturbing trend is the high number of people said to be living with the human immune virus (HIV ) Hiv presently have no known cure. Cost of Medical Treatment for STDs is at a very high rate.

Another worrying trend is that teenagers and other young people are increasing becoming infected with sexually transmitted diseases. A number of young people are said to be infected with Chlamydia, gonorrhea, e-coli etc  The sex industry seems to be responsible for this worldwide problem. This is because most people got infected during holidays, vacation etc and they spread this infection to their partner.
Sex trade is a booming business in South East Asia countries such as India, Bangladesh, Sri lanka, Thailand, Indonesia, Burma etc It is equally the sex trade that has increased the number of people said to be infected with one form of sexually transmission diseases. Many young girls are introduced to sex at an early age as a result of family poverty, broken homes etc.
Africa is also a grooming ground for the sex trade. Many young girls have been forced to abandon education for prostitution. Many family are even encourage their daughters to go into prostitution because they feel they can survive this way. There are tales of young girls being sponsored to go abroad to engage in prostitution.

STEPS FOR FIGHTING THE SEX TRADE

EDUCATION
Young girls should be encouraged to pursue education. The government and private body should introduce scholarship for young girls. Girls can also be trained on other vocational skills such as hair dressing, catering, music, secretarial skills, etc

RE-ORIENTATION FOR YOUNG GIRLS
Young girls should be given adequate information on the dangers that lies with engaged in sex such as the health risk pose by sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

THE ROLE OF RELIGIOUS BODIES
Religious bodies such as churches, mosques, etc should preach the culture of abstainance for our young men and women. The should know that it is a sin to defile the body.

THE ROLE OF PARENTS
The home is the first moral grooming ground for the child. Therefore, parents most especially should take up the responsibility of bringing up their children in a decent way.

THE ROLE OF GOVERNMENT
Government responsibility is to take care of the citizen by creating a conducive environment for the people to realize their potential.  Therefore, government around the world must take up the challenge to provide employments for the citizenry. If there is gainful employment for all and sundry I think people will not engage in such an acts in the scale it is going at the moment.

THE ROLE OF CONDOM
The use of Condom should be promoted by the mass media . Sexually active people and the entire population should be encouraged to use condom. Condom has help me countries to reduce their infection rates.
CARE FOR INFECTED PEOPLE
Infected people should be adequately catered for to reduce the pain they suffer. And to prevent them from spreading the infections to their loved ones and partner.

LEGISLATIONS
Governmental bodies around the world including the labour industry must create an enabling environment to protect people said to be infected with HIV from being discriminated at their place of work.
In conclusion, if the above measures is put in place. It will go a long way in making this planet earth a better place for the human race. Safe sex should be promoted by all and sundry.